Not only do condoms prevent pregnancy, but they can also help prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections like chlamydia, herpes and HIV, which causes AIDS.

Talking to your partner about condoms can be very difficult. If your partner doesn't want to use condoms, try the tips below:

• Choose a time to talk about wearing condoms before the 'heat of the moment.' If you go too far, it won't be easy to stop and talk.

• Ask your partner for a specific reason why he or she doesn't want to use condoms.
  
  
  • If he says, "I can't feel much with a condom," You can respond "Sorry, it doesn't feel as good but I don't feel safe without one."

  • If she says, "I'm on The Pill," you can point out that while the Pill prevents pregnancy, it doesn't stop the spread of sexually transmitted infections. For that, you need a condom.

  • If he says, "You wouldn't make me wear a condom if you loved me," tell him that he can show respect for you by wearing a condom.

  • If she says, "Condoms don't work, they fall off or break, so what's the use_," You say condoms won't break or fall off if they are used correctly and you can have fun learning how to use them together.

  • If he says, "I can't buy condoms, it's too embarrassing." You can point out that it's better to be embarrassed than pregnant. Also, you can get condoms at any Planned Parenthood clinic.

• Remember, if your partner won't use a condom, even after talking about it, you always have the right to say, "No."